Probably not tonight. Tomorrow night tho. :)
My wife was freaked out too.
Did it mean I wanted to sleep with other women? No.
Was I bi? No!
Did I love her? Yes!
Was she not enough for me? Of course she was!
Yeah, it took her quite a while to get her mind around it. My advice is to ensure you pour on the romantic stuff. You can be all lust all fantasy all fuck all the time. You have to hold hands, get her roses and do the cuddle stuff too.
And give her time to let it sink in and get used to the idea.
Yes. There’s a pretty strong undercurrent of what I want and that she knows that. But it’s odd. It’s more like she also doesn’t want to acknowledge it so that it can happen. Not sure that makes sense. But by saying we’ll go out to that one specific club then the pressure is on.
Yet, the last time we went out it was to another club and that wasn’t the plan that night. I’d put the idea in her head a while ago as an alternative to the first club. And I wanted something like that to happen and I think she did too but didn’t want to say it. But we wound up there - at her suggestion. It just sucked :(
So we talk about going out and I KNOW she knows where I’d like to wind up and what I’d like to happen and I think she doesn’t talk about it because she wants to keep the option open and keep it low key but in her head is planning to go.
Thanks for sharing! Well you got there a lot faster with your wife than I have with mine. But I guess it’s not a race. Great that you got what you wanted and that it’s going so well. Must admit what you describe is a lot of what I’d like to have happen.
Thanks for sharing. I usually don’t share solo shots but there’s something personal about this one that I liked. I hope you and she are exploring this fantasy :)
Once in a while when she goes out - it’s not often tho - she will text me. She’s attractive and gets hit on but she rebuffs it. If she came home and said that I’d be very horny!
Once she gets going and crosses that line she might move faster than is safe. I’m thinking going somewhere (back of the club or alley) or not being careful with condoms.