Thanks for sharing! I guess this works for you but it feels like she’s more connected to Alex now. She convinced her to be with more guys together where you didn’t. Hey, if it works for you awesome. I just would want my wife and I to be the center deciding all this stuff.
Oh boy. Well, I have a feeling you might have gone a bit faster than she was ready. Maybe it’s great to rip the bandaid off quickly. But perhaps going slow might have made that last admission easier to handle.
Simply telling her that you like seeing her getting more than you can give or just seeing it slide in and out of her is a turn on might have been a first step.
Then back off using it so much. Just use it every now and then. Then after a while you could go to that final admission. And at that point she might suspect as much or at least be more comfortable hearing it since she’s already heard why you like the dildo.
But hey, you said what was on your mind and that’s a good thing. Now you just have to let her figure out how she feels about it. Make sure to hit on romance now. Get her flowers. Do some chores spontaneously around the house.
Thanks for sharing! If I knew how to get this to the finish line I’d have jerk off material for the rest of my life after seeing her with another guy. So I don’t have all the answers but if your wife has done it in the past I think you have a better chance.
Communication is the key. Maybe relive some of those old times when she fucked other guys. Tell her how much it turns you on. Tell her how gorgeous she is. Bring her flowers. Make her feel good about herself and about what she’s done in the past and maybe she does it again?
I’ve been following your blog for quite some time now, in fact, I was the ‘anonymous’ that asked about the details of your ‘dancing’ all the way back in September (has it been that long already?). Anyway, I just wanted to share that finally our dreams/fantasies have started to come true! There has been MUCH discussion over these fantasies between my partner and I over the past couple of years. She’s always been excited by the idea, but was always unsure of a) if she could go through with it, and b) how it might happen without her feeling awkward.
We discussed one fantasy in particular, that she thought she might be able to go through with. I began trawling through a local swingers website, looking for a willing and suitable participant. I found one profile, and while attempting to select it as a ‘favorite’, I accidentally hit the ‘friend request’ button. This gentleman, replied sending a message along the lines of ‘I’m not sure if you meant to request me as a friend, but happy to accept your friend request if that indeed was the case’… instead of sending cock pics! A few messages later, and it was clear that this gentleman was indeed a gentleman and if anything was ever going to happen, he would be the one. He never even asked for pics of my partner, which is usually peoples first response. Anyway, that fantasy never went any further. Fast forward a few months later and earlier this year, we organized for her to have some nice (nude) photos taken by a professional photographer friend of ours, while on holiday. The results were sensational, to say the least (even too tasteful!).
Communicating with her after the shoot, she commented that she became quite aroused, being exposed and the center of attention. This lead to numerous discussions regarding another shoot, this time with a ‘model’. Either with myself as the ‘model’ with another photographer, or with a ‘model’ with me as the photographer. It was decided that I would be the photographer, as I felt I would be awkward in front of the camera.
To find a ‘model’, I knew exactly where to turn. Our gentleman friend on the swingers website. We met a couple of times to ensure our personalities all meshed. We knew he was the right person. Then came the planning! Finding the time was more difficult than imagined, but finally I’d booked a beautiful hotel room, my partner and I had trawled through websites collecting erotic images we hoped to emulate, and our Gentleman arrived. We shared a couple of drinks, to chat and relax. Then the camera came out.
Slowly the poses became more and more intimate, and our Gentleman was nothing but a gentleman. We both continually ensured, through communication, that my partner was comfortable with what was happening. Our Gentleman was very gentle and attentive. We came to a pose where he was gently licking her and fingering her. I noticed a change in her demeanor, in her response. I asked if she wanted to try a different pose, to which she responded that she was quite happy with what she was experiencing…! I put the camera down immediately, and moved to hold her close, to kiss and caress her. Soon, I was undressed and she took to stroking me while I kissed and caressed her, while she was thoroughly enjoying being licked and fingered by our Gentleman. We then took turns in licking and fingering her, with the other kissing and caressing her while she stroked the others penis. We teased her and built her up to an amazing orgasm that just about crippled her. And that was as far as it went. He then left like a gentleman, as she was spent. He left with no complaints or concerns that she didn’t make him come. A true gentleman.
‘Only’ going as far as we did turned out to be excellent, as we were able to assess how we both felt emotionally etc with what happened, without pushing any major boundaries.
There is no question that we’ll do this again… and go even further next time.
Oh, and some of the photos are sensational!
Thanks for sharing! Congrats on making that jump to reality. And it sounds like you did it the right way. Going slow and finding a guy who would respect your lady and the speed you all wanted to go at. Super hot stuff. Can’t wait to hear about the next time!
Not my normal post but for some reason this submission gets me going. It’s a REAL woman she’s clearly aroused but also conscious that the photos might get out and is being cautious. So I guess it reminds me of my own wife ;)
Thanks for sharing! The point of it all really is to see your woman in total ecstasy. Sounds like you’ve achieved that. And taking a video of it would be amazing so you can relive it over and over. ;)
Thanks for sharing! And even if it doesn’t open new doors it’s great sex!
I like Jodie more and more ;)