12 years ago, me, 2 guys and a girl Jodie travelling in a van and racing motocross. We were all fucking her. She kept us drained. Typical day in the van, one driving, one working on the bike and one nailing Jodie on a mattress behind the bike. Did this for 8 months. Today we are all married with kids and one guy is married to Jodie. Me and the other guy still nail Jodie but only when invited by them. Jodie is a top lady.
Thanks for sharing! Jodie sounds like a top lady for sure. Must be hot for her husband to know what it was like back then and to continue it today. The question is whether they invite just you two or has Jodie expanded her circle of guys?
Hello again. Im a 2 year relationship guy from some of past asks... So, maybe she is afraid because i am her first and she never tried different cock so she might be upset trying a new cock or maybe shy? Can you suggest me what to do ? :(
Well, it has to be you talking and communicating with her. Watch porn together and talk about what turns you both on. Use toys and get verbal with role play. Point her at Tumblr and see what gets her juices running. Go out and encourage her to flirt and then have wild crazy sex after telling her how hot it was to watch her. It’ll be different for every woman though. So you just have to know your lady and keep trying to figure it out.
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need help wife wont do anything anymore wont go out no more shots of her pussy had a girl ready to eat her once years back but no go all she wonts to do is hang at the house on sat and sun really is sad this is geting old the kids are older now so that's not it what to do ?
Sorry to here. Just have to talk to her. Find out what turns her on. Re-ignite that passion. It’s more about the relationship and knowing how to heat her up NOW, not how she heated up before.
Talk. Try stuff. Be romantic. Make her feel great about herself.
Im in a 2 year relationship with my girl and when we watch porn she likes to watch DP and gangbangs but she says she is not into it in real life but shes just turned on and likes to masturbate to that....i sometimes doubt in that, i think shes to nice to admit that she would like to be in bed with two men. What do you think? Is it possible to be just fantasy or she is so stubborn to admit?
I personally think it’s impossible for someone to get off on watching something like that and not, deep down, want to do it in real life. What I think you are seeing is that she doesn’t believe she could do it in real life. That as much as it turns her on she just wouldn’t let herself go there for real.
So I think the desire is there but it’s one that she feels like can only be done via fantasy. It can be tough to lead people to understand that they could do those things. Even tougher if they feel like there are consequences of doing it.
She might think that being in a gang bang would be really hot but that afterwards she’d be labeled a slut by all those guys and what if word got out and would she feel guilty or bad about her self and would any guy really want to marry a woman like that etc. etc.
I'm very happy for you! I haven't been here since she shot you down and came back to catch up and found that maybe she's not completely shut you down after all! It shows she's thinking about it, that she wants it in at least some way. Maybe it would be appropriate during one of you fuck sessions as you DP her to say to, "If you want this to be a real cock in your pussy with me you only have to decide you want it as much as me". Not sure how she'd react but if she cums you're go to go! :D
Thanks! And she’s certainly thinking about it. That’s super clear now. I’m not sure I could be that forward, it might do the opposite and have her tell me she doesn’t want it as much as me. But I’m definitely being more up front about it all and there are little things here and there that seem to be pointing in the right direction.
RE: the post about your wife and you talking it seems to me that her bad girl side comes out after she’s been drinking. It’s nice to know that she has these desires but it’s kind of hard for you to talk to her about it when she’s in that state, If you push too hard when she’s like that she is likely to be mad the next day saying that you took advantage of her. Maybe you could just tease her and ask if the bad girl would like to come out and have sex with you for a start and take it from there. I think you need her to realize that not only are you OK with her bad girl side but that it turns you on. Just my 2 cents. Good luck!
Yes. I’m aware I need to be careful there. She knows the bad girl turns me on but asking her to come out to play more often might be a good thing. Thanks!
I wish you success with your wife. I was and she took to it. I never try to or suggest restraint, I let her have it when and how she wants it. If we meet someone then he is like a new toy and maybe she will see him a lot at first. At the moment she has a guy that we get together with. Its the 3 of us then I let her have him alone and let her wear him out. She says he’s the best yet. I measure success seeing her happy and doing things she never dreamed of. Its a winner.
Thanks for sharing! I like the end there where you connect it to her happiness and seeing her do things she never dreamed of. I think that’s sort of the mind blowing thing when you start exploring this stuff. You realize you can do all these things and still be okay. Still be you.
Hope you're enjoying your roller-coaster ride of recent weeks as much as we are! I've often wondered what will become of this blog if (sorry! when! ;) your fantasy is realized... I trust you recognize how delightful the tension of waiting and wondering and yearning is, and savor it, because everything afterwards, while (hopefully!) wonderful, will be different... we can never go back to the sweet time before our "firsts", whether it's the first kiss, first love, the first... Make the most of it!
Thank you! It’s been a good outlet for me and in the process I hope others enjoy it or that it helps them on their journey. I am definitely enjoying the journey there! I sort of wish there were a few more ups but I have no reason to complain :)
Have you thought maybe going about it a different way? Maybe you’re wife put the brakes on your fantasy because she’s too anxious about being with a total stranger. Maybe if she was comfortable with the other guy then the chances may be greater.
I wrote about my wife inviting her friend over for her first mfm. Since then he has been over once more and we have also been with two other couples. (Group play. No swapping in different rooms)
Once she met the other guys she was more comfortable with things progressing. She made sure to tell me nothing will happen with a stranger or on a first date with anyone.
As always, communication is key. Let her know that you would still love to see your fantasy become reality. But instead of with a stranger, maybe with a friend that she could first become comfortable with.
It’s worked for me. My wife has slowly opened up to the possibility of meeting people and over a short period of time, having some fun with them too
Thanks for sharing and congrats on exploring! I think the issue here is that if we tried to go the ‘friendly’ route she’d think too much and get cold feet. Doing it that way means you’re more committed to doing it and she isn’t there yet. She seems to be on the fence depending on her mood.
Now if we get another dance night and she flirts, gets felt up, makes out with other guys there and she sees that I react well and she feels good after THEN the next step might be doing something more direct.
My wife has had others but now we have David. He’s much younger, married and lives next door. His wife has returned to her career after having children and is very busy. David sees to my wife at least 3 times during the week. I watch the children as his wife is always late home. She often takes the children to her parents on Sunday and my wife, David and I get together. He is ideal for her, very attentive, athletic, an excellent package. Its the best yet.
Thanks for sharing and I’m glad it’s working out for you. For me, three times a week would be way too much for me. It wouldn’t be as special then and I fear it would lose it’s power and become to normal.
Dammit man, I feel for you! I'm almost as anxious for your wife to go for it as I would be for mine to do it. Mine was a walk in the park. Just before we were married, she kept telling me about a guy who kept coming in to her work, and hitting on her. She asked me what she should do, I asked her if she wanted to fuck him, and she said yes. I said, go for it. They flirted for a while, and 42 days after we were married, she had his cock in her mouth. It developed into a 4 yr affair. She loved it.
Thanks and congrats! Hot that your wife has done this. Was it just that one guy or has she continued to find others since?
Absolutely astonishing news! Things seem to be back where you want them - only needing patience and good timing. Your wife sounds ever hotter when you talk about her that way. Good for you both!
Well, I don’t want to get too ahead of myself but I think the idea is definitely on her mind. And in some ways she might feel like a bit of groping and kissing at the club might be an easier way to satisfy my fantasy rather than going further. Yet I have a feeling doing that might make her more open to going further and that’s good news too :)
But until we get there I’m not going to think it’s going to happen. But it does feel more likely again. Better than that shut-down conversation we had a few weeks ago.
I wonder if she sort of regrets that. Maybe she likes having that door open. Likes having me push it. Offer it. I just don’t know. And I bet it changes by her mood.
How are things going with your wife? Any role-play since the last outing and when's the next outing?
Things are good. A bit confusing but good. So here are the details.
We went out last weekend and had a very fun evening. She was in one of her moods and as we were drinking and talking she said there was a part of her that wanted to do things and other that told her she shouldn’t. Now that conversation happened as we were leading up to going to THAT club.
That’s right, she was totally into the idea of going to the club and dancing even though earlier that night she told me the only reason I wanted to go was to watch her kiss other men. So I was pretty sure something was going to happen! And then our night got sidetracked. I won’t go into details of why but we just couldn’t get there.
The next night she offered to go after we’d been having some fun at home. We were both on the fence about whether to go or not and in the end decided not to. There was a part of me that wanted to but another that thought it would look to desperate and it was too forced.
But that night she talked about whether she could fully satisfy me given my desires. We almost talked about it but then we started fucking. We had some amazing sex. And the things she said made it seem like she knew how badly I wanted to see her with other men and that she wasn’t sure she could do that.
Maybe I was reading into things and hoping for things but it felt like she was on the edge. That she was saying she might not be able to but with some coaxing and some pushing she might. That in her weak moments, in those times when that side of her won out maybe she’d do it.
Since then she’s made an offhand comment here and there about dancing at the club so I fully expect we’ll get there soon. I just need to make the time and get her in the ‘zone’.
Love the blog! Looks like u could start connecting people near by and share stories lol! Meaning couple post their location anonymous and people in the neighborhood post like for the couples to then privately connect with them. Could be fun ;)
Ha! I don’t want that responsibility! I mean, it sounds cool but then someone figures out who it is and things go haywire and I have enough to deal with figuring out my own situation :)
I suspect your wife is like mine in that she needs an emotional connection to enjoy sex. I have ask my wife about her 1 night stands and she tells me they all left her feeling lonely, cheap and sorry she had done it, regardless of how the actually sex was.(didn’t keep her from doing it again… but sorry none the less…lol) Not exactly the hot sexy response I was looking for but an honest answer.
Maybe you could ask your followers if any theirs wife felt this way and were the able to over come this issue and convert them to cock loving hotwives?
My wife has similar feelings about her one night stands but I’m not sure she’d feel the same now. There’s a bit of a war inside her head right now as to what she should and shouldn’t do.
Previously she’d used this excuse but I think it was a convenient excuse and borne more out of conditioned guilt. But would be interested to hear from others!
Its a second marriage for both of us. My wife makes really good money so we follow the mighty dollars and we relocated. She moved out and started the project and I stayed and packed up and readied the house for sale.
When packing I found a box of video tapes. I had never seen it before. I thought I would go through them and discard any that didn’t work. No sense taking junk with us.
I borrowed a tape player as I hadn’t owned one for years. The tapes were ones of her and her kids and birthday parties except I found 4 which were far from that.
They were of my wife with 4 different men and her husband. 2 tapes had her and 2 other women being fucked and also the women together.
I converted and transferred all the tapes to digital and destroyed the originals.
When I moved over I waited for the right moment and told her what I had found.
She was embarrassed and apologised for not telling me that side of her life.
She told me that her husband had these men regularly fuck her. One of the men in the movie was quite an expert cameraman and he either filmed the others or had her husband film when he as in the action. The 2 women were girlfriends of the men. This group thing went on for 4 years. There were other men but these were never filmed.
When they split it got quite messy and she made sure she took the tapes so that they could not be used against her. She forgot where she hid them.
She admitted she liked most of it but when the marriage broke up she had never had group or multiple sex since. When she started dating again she was only comfortable with one on ones.
She lets me watch them with her and we had some fun during and after. There is no embarrassment now, she knows it turns me on to see her that way. They are the best porn movies ever when your wife is the star.
I have never had a threesome or anything like she has in my life and she knows that. We have talked about doing that and she has left it to me if I want to try it.
I may as I think about it a lot but haven’t had the nerve to take the big step.
Thanks for sharing! That’s an amazing experience and so hot that you now know about her past and can talk about it. So I assume she’d be open to doing this and it’s up to you to take that step?
It IS a big one. I guess the question is would it be different to watch her do this again? I guess one is when she wasn’t your wife and one would be when she is. Usually we don’t have the ability to watch our spouses with former lovers but you have so it makes the whole thing a bit different.
Of course I’d say go for it but do so slowly and cautiously but its easier to say it than to do it! Let us know what you decide ;)
Unfortunately nothing happened on Friday. We meet a lovely chap, but both my fiancée and I didn’t feel 100% comfortable and decided not to go ahead. We both believe in instinct and if something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. It hasn’t put us off using Craigslist again though and we will be looking at postings for another meeting and possible fun.
Take care and have fun.
Thanks for sharing and awesome that you trust that instinct and go with safety over lust.
Our or my experience is that a lot of women (wives) find the idea of a lover or threesome desirable but a nervous and scared about being found out by family, friends. I got nowhere with my wife until we went away alone on a holiday. Now it’s a regular thing, we go 3 times a year. She won’t even use or carry her own cell phone. We have cheap throwaways to we use. If we hook up good with a guy we may see him 6 or 8 times and he will have that number. We’ve done threesomes and loners, just perfect.
Interesting. I know there’s something to that with my wife and our dancing. Going somewhere and letting your hair down without anyone knowing who you are might help.
Years ago I crewed on a 50 foot yacht round South Pacific. The couple were n their 40s, I was 19. I fucked the wife and he did too but really liked to watch. Sometimes I had her 4 times a day. He would steer and we would fuck beside him. She had the first shaved cunt I ever saw or fucked. I kept in contact with them all these years. He has gone now and she is 81. Recently she told me he had over 70 lovers while they married. I was one of the few she still knew.
Thanks for sharing! And that’s a pretty amazing experience and great that you were able to learn about her adventures in total. 70 is a lot! But it sounds like they were together for a long time and enjoyed their time to the fullest.
I knew from the start I would never enough for her. She has had many lovers and I wouldn’t want it any other way. I still get slightly jealous and anxious when they kiss her on the mouth and linger. I also know that when she is sure of someone and its no more condoms then the bar is lifted and there is competition to please her between me and the other male. They are usually around for a while. I’m not worried she will ditch me, its just he is getting exactly the same as me.
Thanks for sharing but you sound rather conflicted about it all.
Remember me, I asked the does this Qualify. You wondered did she fuck me and the other in the same day. Yes, I used to see her at weekends, we live 60 miles apart. She would spend Thursday night with him, fuck him instead of breakfast, then meet me that night and fuck. Thats as close as we got. She says she only kept fucking him because he was so good at it and she didn’t want to lose him until she was sure about me. He was actually at our wedding, I didn’t know he had been dicking her then.
That’s pretty hot! Getting two cocks in a day and knowing you were sliding into her after she’d fucked another guy earlier that day. Love that she says how good this guy was too. Feels like you could explore some themes there with her ;)