The next "date" maybe will end with her giving him a BJ or hand job in the backseat while you drive them around. If you or her don't like the way things are going or feel stop, go home and talk about it. In the end she is in charge it's about HER pleasure, she has the power and maybe that is how to sell it. She has the power over you maybe she will enjoy that? It sounds like you lean a little towards being cuckolded and maybe she will get off on exploiting that? Something to think about.
I luv that scenario of driving them around while she’s in the back.
It’s totally about her pleasure. I’m not going to get off unless I know she’s getting off.
I think I’m a bit submissive here though I can be dom at times. She’s the same way. Likes to be dom sometimes but other times really likes when I take control. Yin-yang.
Maybe your wife is afraid that you will think she's a slut if she enjoys herself. There is such a double standard when it comes to men and woman and sex. If a guy bangs a new woman every night he's a stud and gets a pat on the back. If a woman does a new guy every night she's a slut and looked down on. Talk, talk, talk about this. Take small steps maybe just meet a guy for drinks and see how you both feel, if everything is OK she can give him a steamy goodnight kiss.
Totally agree on that doublestandard. We do talk about that and she sort of knows I enjoy slutty behavior :)
After finding your wife with her Thanksgiving stud, having leftovers must be pretty hot. Would you rather watch her with 2 guys or be one of the two guys? Do you fantasize about cleaning her up afterwards or just watching? Nice blog by the way, keep us posted on your progress towards your dream!
I do think about sliding into her after she’s been fucked. In fantasy I think of her being slick with jizz. Not sure we could do that for real.
First time I’d want to be the second guy but I think about seeing her with two guys too. Not sure about licking her after. Sometimes I think I could or would but other times I’m not so sure.
Sorry if you've already answered this, but what is your wife's objection to fucking other men? My wife was initially hesitant, and because she's a professional with a reputation has been going very slowly, only fucking men she knows that don't live in our city, thus protecting her reputation. But, once she got over the initial "this is wrong" phase, is enthusiastic if cautious about getting new cock. Have you talked in detail about your fantasies? Does she think that you'll get jealous?
I’ve talked in detail! Yup. Sure have :)
Yes. I think she’s worried I’d be jealous or just not be able to handle seeing it for real. I also think she’s worried she’d like it too much and feel guilty.
She thinks its risky to the marriage. Why open Pandora’s box?
Your wife has started thrusting her hips up as his fingers slide into her wetness, she has become a woman possessed, her moans filling the room as she wildly sucks her lover. You can't help yourself as you pull your erection out and start to stroke yourself as you watch them. He has spread her legs and slides his big cock in and out of her pussy. You bring your cock to her open mouth as he thrust harder and faster. She's never been this wild before, primal, uninhibited sexy.Your new hotwife
Thank you for this! Though I’m not sure I’d even be able to touch my cock seeing my wife like that. I’d probably spurt without even touching myself if she were doing that with a stud.
back to our Thanksgiving party and your wife.... you take your seat by the bed and your wife resumes sucking on his 8" cock right in front of you. She's kneeling in front of him and he saliva has dripped onto her breasts making them glisten in the low light. He has her lay on her back with her legs spread and dips his fingers into her wet pussy. You can her her pussy make "squishing" sounds as he slides 2 then 3 fingers into her. Is this what you wanted? Does it turn you on?
You’ve asked about how you can get your wife interested in playing for real. Well, here is our story:
This all started for us about 4 or 5 months ago. We two have been together and faithful for nearly 30 years (!), as we met and married very young. Now with our kids growing, we are simply enjoying a second teenagerhood — with trust and mutual adventure in mind. Until a few months ago, my wife had NEVER been with another man (I had two other girlfriends with whom I’d had sex before we two met). She and I had long fantasized and whispered about adding another person to our bed, but she was always afraid to try for fear of what it might o to US. Me? Hell. I’m a guy! :-) I’m easier. I find it exciting to think about (and now watch and hear) her being pleasured by another man — or woman, for that mater.
Anyway, one night we felt adventurous and went to a (classy) strip club together, and found a seat right up close to the stage. My wife started being flirty/funny with the guy sitting next to her (putting her hands over his eyes, as if to say “you shouldn’t be looking at this” when a girl came close to us). They were laughing and having fun. And pretty soon his arm was around the back of her chair and he was teasing her hair… She looked at me at one point and said “do you realize he’s touching me?” I said yes, but I didn’t mind. Anyway, one thing led to another and when it was time to go, she said “he wants to come with us.” (!) I told her it was now or never if she was ever going to let it happen… and after some thought (about 10 sec!) she said “what the hell, why not!”
Our new friend walked with us to a dark parking lot where we both had left our cars. He was holding her hand, I was walking beside them. She stopped, and pushed him in between two cars, leaning him up against one of the driver-side doors, and began to kiss him. I leaned in behind her, pressing my own hard cock against her dress, kissing the back of her neck. She was on fire. I stepped back to admire them, and he slipped his hands up underneath her dress, cupping her gorgeous ass. Such a hot sight. I let them be for a few moments, then approached her again. She was grinding her hips against him, and I could not see her hands but could tell she was massaging his cock through his jeans. I touched her shoulders and gently nudged her downward; it didn’t take much. She was on her knees before him now, unzipping his fly, and taking his cock out. You have to understand that she had not had any other cock in her hands since high school, so it was very exciting for her, She hungrily sucked him, as I stepped back and watched. He was moaning, his hands in her hair. She was making her own noises that let me know she was enjoying having his unfamiliar meat in her warm mouth. She stood up and kissed him, lifting her right leg and grinding into him; he said he did not have any condoms with him; I heard her whisper “that’s too bad because I want you in me.” She was having so much fun! Soon she was back on her knees, bobbing her head up and down on his hard cock. She looked up at him and whispered, “Cum.” And she devoured him as he exploded in her mouth, moaning her name…
It was incredibly hot to watch! and that was just the beginning…
It ended up being an incredibly sexy night, with the three of us going back to our hotel room and the two guys pleasuring her in ways we two had only fantasized about. She loved it. Since then, our eyes have been opened and we have shared two other experiences with another couple we met online. Our communication has been wonderfully open, our OWN sex life has been enhanced… It’s been good! We’re truly having fun and more in love with each other than ever before. It’s only sex — and the sex is great!
I've seen the recent posts where some of your followers have asked how you get your wife to be a hotwife. There is no one way that will work for all women, each has their own path to follow. There are many analogies I could give you, but start with open, honest communication with her. Ask if she ever has fantasies about other men and tell her you're ok with them, that hearing about them turns you and makes you want her even more. That's a good starting place and could lead to much fun...
Agreed! There’s no one way it works and communicating about the fantasy is the biggest first hurdle. I know I hid mine for a long time and felt so much better when I shared it with my wife.
well the drive didn't turn up any thing but later that night i went to bed and they stayed up and talked and she ended up sucking and fucking him then came to bed and we fucked after witch she told me she had fucked him . i was proud of her to get over that hump and hope she starts to explore more .
Wow! Congratulations! How do you feel? Any mixed emotions knowing your wife got over that hump?