then do you think that big cocks are better for women?
Not really. I think it’s whatever gets the woman off more. Variety is a big deal too. A change is hot. But a bit bigger and thicker than me, I bet that feels different and maybe better. I don’t know. I do think longer lasting is better for women :)
I love pages like yours that give me hope that someday maybe my wife would maybe get crazy with another couple....but maybe it will always just be a fantasy for me....I'd sure love to join you both....
It may only be a fantasy for me too. I hope not! But even fantasizing about it is pretty good. Trying to get to the reality is pretty damn hot too!
Is it about it being your wife doing these things, or about you getting to swing? Where I'm going with this is: my soon-to-be wife and I are polyamorous, which opens the door of 'that's not for me, but if you want to do it with someone else, that could be ok.' So far, we just haven't found anything she doesn't want that I do, so involvement of others has just been icing on the cake. Maybe that's something you and your wife could consider, if you haven't.
No, it’s not about swinging for me. I’m not looking to be with other women (or men).
Instead it’s a shared experience. Her experiencing another guy (or guys) and me being there to see her enjoy it and getting turned on doing so. Her getting turned on not just by the other men but by the fact that I’m turned on seeing her indulge and do it.
Before we were married, my wife and I did a trio with a buddy of mine. It was very hot and I wanted to continue to explore the mfm thing, but she just refused. I kept at her over the years, getting her to do thing like letting me cum in her mouth, anal, showing off some in public, and finally (20 years after the first trio), having another trio. It was cool, and six months later, we had another trio with a different guy, and she let us DP her! Now she is willing to talk about a GB or a couple!
Wow! That gives me some hope that someday maybe my wife will decide to give it a try. Sounds like your having a lot of fun together.
I have known three women, ordinary housewives that enthusiastically embraced and enjoyed their Hot Wife status and lifestyle. These women were not met through internet/swinger sites, but women I've casually crossed paths with in life. It appears to me, a lot bigger percentage of women than one would think are open or even eager to explore this wild side if they are secure and know it will never be held against them. What are your thoughts on this?
I want this to be true! I do think more think about and do this then we think. People just aren’t opening talking about it. I get that!
Also think being secure and knowing it isn’t going to be held against them is huge. They have to know they’ll still be loved and that they don’t have to feel guilty.
Did you or are you finding it hard to move your wife on from talking/fantasising about it,to actually fucking another man and hopefully,fucking many more?If she has would you actually like him to cum bareback in her pussy?I love the idea of it but would worry about STD's etc
Yes. I have not be successful in getting her from fantasy to reality. I may never. But I still try and hope.
I do fantasize about the stud cumming in her bareback. There’s something very powerful about seeing another man’s cum oozing out of her or the idea of sliding in and feeling her hot and slick with another man’s cum.
Agreed. I love the idea but also worry about STDs and pregnancy so doing this for real might not be possible.
We had our first role play session with a dildo the other day it was very hot. I put a blindfold on the wife and told her I was her lover and that her husband was going to watch. I fucked her brains out with that dildo and she moaned and came hard. I also talked to her "husband" about how good she was when she gave me a blow job. I can't wait to do it again!
That sounds awesome! Glad it worked out so well for you. The blindfold helps a lot I think. I can’t wait to hear about it again!
Time for a really dirty question: Where are you on the spectrum of cuckolding? Do you want to be dominated / humiliated by your wife and her bull? Do you want her to tease you about how manly he is compared to you? To tell you how much better he is at fucking and filling her cunt with his cum and making her come like a whore? If your wife said she would be the slut you want and start fucking other guys, but only if you suck their cocks to get them hard so they can fuck her, would you?
Okay. Dirty question answers.
I enjoy the thought of the wife telling me how good, maybe even better, a bigger cock feels. Or how the stud doesn’t cum so fast so she can suck him longer. Erotic teasing is what I would call it. Nothing too over the top.
But in fantasy I often think of her spread legged after getting fucked. Cum oozing out of her and her telling me to come over and feel what her pussy feels like after a big cock fucks her.
I’m not into the bi thing so I don’t think I could suck cock to make the fantasy a reality. I can’t say I’d rule it out entirely tho. The desire to see her fuck other guys is pretty high and I do enjoy her being dominant. Still, I don’t think I could go through with it.
I'd never given much thought to two cocks at once until my husband brought it up. Now I like the idea more and more though I try not to be TOO enthusiastic. If I show too much enthusiasm, he becomes a little wary. (Hey, he's the one that opened Pandora's Box! Not me! ;) Anyway, wouldn't it just be nice if technology could present a nice MMF three-way without complications afterward?!? I hope I live long enough to see this. We should open a KickStarter *grin*
Thank you for contributing. I LOVE that you’re now into the idea because hubby introduced it to you.
I think guys have to think about that Pandora’s box. I wouldn’t mind if my wife started to think about it more enthusiastically tho!
You have it right. MMF three-way without complications. If we knew it was JUST sex, that it was safe I think we’d see a lot more people doing it!