I made up an email because ask stopped me and was in such small bites to give you the entire story… just ignore those other asks the entire story is here.
Dildo buyer. Saturday was a 95% success. We were supposed to go to the nearby lake and take out boat out of the water and get it ready for winter. When we got there it was warm and the sun was out so our plan to do work and then have and early dinner with wine and play got changed.
Instead, it turned out to be the best possible day - we spent more time than I can remember floating in the boat drinking margaritas and talking about all sorts of things that we haven’t talked about for years but mostly we talked about sex. Margaritas are a lubricant for my wife. We talked a lot and covered lots of topics from the toys and playing with them and why I like it. It confuses her why I like it so much. It’s hard for me to fully explain but I explained it was a lot more dick than I could offer her and she frequently repeated that my dick is fine for her and I thanked her for that.
My dick is a pretty average - 6” not super wide but with a big head and it has always gotten the job done. But I said it was much more I wanted her to have than just “bigger” dick it was her experiencing new levels of pleasure and I wanted her to have as much pleasure as possible. The talk lasted some time and eventually lead to us both admitting to threesome fantasies of all kinds but mostly of me talking about wanting her having two cocks at once.
I explained that was the reason I bought a dildo with a suction cup - so “we” could both do her at the same time. We talked about our ex’s and guys that had hit on her and opportunities with girls I’d had since we’d been together (I never took them and neither had she).
That led to me telling her if they hit on her she she should flirt and seriously consider going for it, I just wanted and needed to be a part of it if she went all the way. I even mentioned going to Hedonism in Jamaica to make the threesome fantasy come true in an environment that would be open to the idea and she even left the door open when all she said was, “Well, we’d better not come home having some disease we have to take a bunch antibiotics for!” All the talk and the margaritas led to me fingering her to orgasm in the boat although I wanted to do much more but she wouldn’t have it.
Well, the day in the sun and lots of margaritas was an amazing thing. The day could have ended there and it would have been happy but it wasn’t over yet.
We eventually got back to the house sunburned and pretty drunk and she got in the shower. I told her I’d work on dinner and she should relax after her shower and “get to know” her toys better. She agreed and I got started cooking.
After she was out of the shower he yelled from the shower for me to help her. The dildo has a remote control vibrator in it that wasn’t working and she was trying to figure it out. I messed with the wire which had become frayed and it sorta worked but we have a couple small vibrators I got her too so she decided to just play with those and the dildo.
I went back to cooking dinner and after a 10 minutes or so I look in to see her with the butterfly vibrator and she had the big dildo next laying to her. I should have left her alone to play but I was overwhelmed by the sight so I turned off the stove and went into the bedroom.
It was amazing - she worked the butterfly for a while while I watched and then I lubed up the dildo replaced the butterfly with it. She seemed to be really enjoying it and I was wound up like I can’t remember when. I was sliding fat 7 inch dildo in and out of her and it was going most of the in - certainly further than I could go and she was moaning like mad.
She said she wanted me and earlier I had talked about switching between guys so “she could go all night” and that’s what I thought she wanted so I pulled out the dildo and slipped my cock in her. I was hard as a rock and super excited and stroked until I though I would cum if I stoked once more. I didn’t want to cum yet, so I pulled out and put the dildo back in her.
I held it in front of my cock and used my body to push it in and held on to pull it back out it was like “I” had the big cock and was fucking her with it. She seemed to be enjoying it but then it happened — she seemed to just freak.
She almost started crying and was on the edge of tears. I didn’t know what to do so I just stopped and pulled out the dildo. I asked if I hurt her with the dildo but she said no. I held her for a long, long time.
Eventually she started kissing me we made out for quite a while. I decided to try and eat her pussy. She loves to have her pussy eaten so I did my best to make it good for her - flat tongue with long slow licks switching to quick flicks to her clit, then licking her from her asshole to her clit and long deep probes tongue fucking her pussy. It went on for a long while with her enjoying it and grabbing my head pushing up her hips.
I decided to try again and got the dildo from beside her and slipped it in and she moaned hard. She pushed up with her hips and I even licked her clit while fucking her with the big dildo. She was seemingly on fire and then after several minutes of this it happened again.
She freaked and told me to take it out. I did and she pushed me away. I tried to hold her but it was over. My balls were under amazing pressure and she said she wanted me to fuck her and rolled over. I was still very hard and slid inside her from behind but I was really concerned about her freaking out and I felt like it was a mercy fuck for me and I went soft and just quit. The night was over. We held each other and fell asleep with her hand holding my cock.
We had to get up early to do the work we didn’t do when we were floating but we both said how great the day before had been and she even made a snarky but positive remark about the toys while I had them on the sink washing them up.
While it didn’t end perfectly I still think it was a huge step in the right direction because we got so much out on the table. Her emotional conflict was kinda crazy for me but I know she knows that I love her so much it hurts even if she doesn’t understand my kinky desires. Hell, I’m not fully sure I understand it.
I think we probably covered more ground in a single day than she could handle or maybe it brought back other memories that I she hasn’t shared with me. I think I need to repeat the cooling off period now and let her her it up again. Still the day on the water was amazing and she has said that several times. For me and at least part of the time for her, the sex was great while it lasted….I have to go JO cause now I’m all worked up again thinking about it!
Thank you for sharing! So I would definitely go with another long cooling off period. The time on the water sounds like a really awesome experience of connecting on a very intimate level. That’s what happens when you share your sexual secrets and talk openly. Awesome to hear this.
The breakdown seems like either a conflict of her own sexuality (liking it but thinking she shouldn’t like it) or that she’s uncomfortable doing it FOR you, basically doing something she’s not totally on board with. But her comments after the fact making light of it seem promising in some ways.
Did you ask about what the breakdown meant for her? What it was about? Tough subject but really the BIG question.
Keep connecting and keep having fun! Thanks for the update!
Anonymous said: I would like to think I am training my young wife but I fear it is me who is adjusting to her wants. She is 15 years younger than me. We have friends over mainly male but some with partners. We have a pool and Carlie wears only bikini bottoms, a G. Its white and when wet, see through. She is smooth and you can see her slit. She has played before in a previous relationship so I think its possible that we are heading there. She says not but she enjoys the show.
Well, the question is whether you want something more to happen? If you’re reading this Tumblr the answer is probably yes so why not just chat with Carlie and see where both your heads are at :)
Anonymous said: My wife has the need of other lovers and I choose to let that happen. Now Tina has her current choice visit her in our detached studio while I keep the family away. This happens about once a week when the lovers wife travels with her work. At this stage I don’t take part. I couldn’t watch or join in. It would be too much. I enjoy the after and her descriptions. She calls his manhood the Weapon of Mass De FUCK ion. We have good sex when we are together. Jad
Thanks for sharing! Funny name for his manhood. It feels like you’re torn from how you write this tho.
Personally, I know weekly is not the frequency I’d want and I’d also want to be there. If you’re enjoying it all, keep going but if you aren’t, make a change.
(Source: istermiydin, via iloanmywife)
Anonymous said: DIldo buyer. Last night we had a talk about replacing a car that we both like but it's old and has lots of miles. It's a fun little convertible. I was being practice and say we needed something bigger and that the convertible was a toy. She smiled at me and said - I like toys. I replied well then this weekend we will have to get your toys out and play. she said - I hope so. I went instantly hard! The cooling off period seems to have paid off! I'm Excited for Saturday night!
Yes! That’s perfect. Great that she brought it up and you followed through and picked up on her lead. Can’t wait to hear how it goes.
Anonymous said: I'm going away on vacation again and that means it's time to take her dancing and let her naughty side come out to play.
Hello I’m inquiring how to submit my wife pics and if I did would i be able to read the views and comments on it
I don’t regularly post solo pics of wives. Once in a blue moon I might if something about her strikes me or if it comes with a good story. But I wouldn’t count on it.
Anonymous said: When you are both comfortable in a relationship it comes more easily. I have shared my beautiful wife many times. She’s also had sex with men without me. Though the best for me was my last birthday. She had her lover and his visiting buddy. Her lover was bareback as usual and his friend played safe with a condom. I just watched and stroked myself until they rested. I then ate her which is bliss then fucked her. They then had her again while she sucked me back to life. Roll on this birthday.
Thanks for sharing! Sounds like a great relationship and a fantastic birthday gift!
Anonymous said: My friend who was married had another girl as a fuck buddy. He included me with her a couple of times. She and I started going out, moved in together and married. He was a bit disappointed at first but we still included him fairly often and the fun returned. A while ago his marriage turned to shit and then he started to demand more of my wife and other privileges. No longer fun so she ended it. I felt it had to be her decision. Pity it had lasted 5 years. Hope he gets happy again.
Wow, what a web you three spun! I think it might be best that he doesn’t return given his entitlement issues. The question is whether your wife would want to replace him with another stud for some threesome fun?
Hi. H.D again the writer of Fantasy or Reality and Risk or No Risk postings.
Your response to the Risk or No Risk article and in particular your comments appertaining to the point of people finding it hard to be more than one identity by expressing: “how can a woman be a good mother yet give her husband a blowjob in a public place” lifts the lid off a whole new level of turning a women into a hot wife.
I am sure there are many of the followers of this blog, not to mention the millions of men who don’t, who all share a common secret desire to see their partner taking an extra cock or two. It’s that transition from a mother by day to an unrecognisable ‘slut by night’ that is such an irresistible urge in all of us.
As much as we think they are the same person they are not.
As I mentioned in the previous post, the difference between a woman who enjoys a good old MFM session and those who would revolt at their husbands very mention of the idea of MFM role play is purely down to a psychological difference and not a physical one.
The internet clearly demonstrates the endless number of women who are more than happy to display their sexuality by posing for nude snaps to hardcore porn. Is it for the money? Well for those select few professional porn models the answer is yes, but for the majority of the ‘everyday’ women whom are happy to display their sexuality for all to see the reward is in the sexual kick - the deviance of the social conventions.
Of course these ‘everyday’ women don’t want to be harassed by some pervert who has recognised them from the ‘net’ as they go about their daily business as he asks them if they want a ‘quickie’ in the supermarket car park. After all it is and it isn’t the same women.
We all have an alter ego, and for those who don’t know what an alter ego is I would strongly suggest you look it up. However, I can assure you that you have more than likely met your wife’s or partners alter ego many, many times without even knowing it.
If you have just checked out what an alter ego is and come back to continue reading this post you’ll now know that that your wife’s or partner’s alter ego is the women who acts out of her everyday character - a totally different person to whom you know. She dresses and appears in many different guises, but for the purpose of this post and the subject of hot wives she is a ‘slut’ and a women with a totally different mindset to the everyday women who cooks our meals, washes our clothes, and tenders to our children.
Her alter ego will only come out to play when it takes HER fancy and when SHE feels the time is right. - It’s not what you want, she’s in control, even if it means she wants to lose control. It’s her game and she calls all the shots.
So when you look at all these delectable everyday women that happily display their charms for all to see, or who indeed become a hot wife and take more than one cock whether it be in role play or reality it is their alter ego at play.
I am sure there are many of those wishful followers now beginning to wonder if their wife or partner has an alter ego. Well of course she does. Who do you think is controlling her mind and thoughts when she’s secretly rubbing her pussy and having wild uninhibited fantasies? Do you think your wife or partner is dreaming of being made love to on a sheepskin rug beside a blazing fire when she’s having a wank? Of course not, she’s fantasising about having wild un-inhibitive sex. She’s being fucked in all holes, having her face and mouth covered in spunk and you know what???….She loves it.
But, and this is the big but….would she admit to you what she has secretly been dreaming of??? I think you already know the answer to that question.
So how do you coax your wife or partner’s alter ego out to play? How do you turn your everyday, devoted loving wife by day into a ‘slut by night’ After all isn’t she the one you want to play with?
It can be done, look at all the other women that have revealed the ‘slut within’ - You just never know who or where she could be. It could be the woman you’re standing next to at the checkout, or the woman at work. Like all women the one thing they all have in common is that they don’t reveal their ‘secret side’ - they don’t introduce you to their alter ego unless you know how to feed it’s desires and coax it from its lair.
Of course there is more to follow this posting, and I’d be happy to share my thoughts and understanding of how you can turn your wife or partner into the vamp you so wishfully desire her to be. But as this blog can only continue with the support and input from its followers I think you should at least be sending in some comments of how easy you turned your wife into a hot wife, or indeed what difficulties and resistance you are facing. After all this is a community to share our thoughts and to expand our knowledge.
Let’s get a good discussion started and let’s get an insight into what goes on, and off, in our bedrooms. Whether it be role play or real play come on guys put your fingers to the keyboard and tell us your experiences.
Do you want the next episode? …. Let me know.
Good stuff here but I think it’s more than just an alter ego. In fact, the alter ego to me is a different person. It’s the Hulk and not David Banner. Many people resort to an alter ego to explore their fantasies. A lot of men might have bisexual tendencies but only do so under an alter ego.
Because trying to admit that it’s part of YOU is vastly more difficult. But that’s where I think the path to really exploring this stuff happens. I could be dead wrong since I haven’t made it happen but I think being comfortable with the idea that you are a loving wife, caring mother and kinky woman all at the same time leads to a better result.
In some ways I think tapping into the alter ego is probably easier if you’re trying to persuade your partner to do this. You release it but then if they do anything how do they feel about it afterwards because like it or not ALL those egos have to live with it. That’s the issue I think.
Some might be able to compartmentalize but I hope my wife finally feels more comfortable with the idea that she’s a great wife and mom but also loves kinky sex. She’s said as much that sometimes she feels a bit guilty about getting off on certain things. She was talking about DP with me and a toy in this case. But that she knows she shouldn’t and doesn’t really anymore.
I think accepting your WHOLE self might set folks free. I would LOVE to hear more from the husbands and particularly the wives since we’re talking about you when we might not know what the fuck we’re talking about.