For me it’s both. Clearly I want her to enjoy herself. It wouldn’t be arousing to me if she wasn’t aroused and if she didn’t get off with this other guy. But we wouldn’t be talking about doing it if I wasn’t the one who would get off seeing that. So in some ways it’s my pleasure first since we wouldn’t entertain it otherwise but I wouldn’t want it unless she was in to it and getting off.
No. She wants me there. We’ve talked about it.
I know people want things to go faster but that’s just not happening right now. There’s more to life than the fantasy.
No. I think I read her quite well. Read it again. Sorry but the condescending black or white, if you don’t do it this way you’re never going to realize your fantasy crap is just that. Crap. And I won’t put up with it.
I get that women have a different view on this many times. That emotions can play a bigger part. But those emotions can also be far more with the husband and not the stud. Either way, you can express your own experience without telling the rest of us we’re wrong.
After reading the letter from the female anon I just wanted to put my 2 cents in. I feel depending on what you read the lines between hotwife and cuckolding are kind of blurred at first. I’ve read where the wife goes out on date and sleeps with the stud as being both. I think it crosses over into cuckolding when you throw humiliation into the mix. Some people probably find it very intense if the wife is out on a date and they get a very explicit video or picture sent to their phone, others would be appalled. What ever floats your boat. Me, I’d like to be there to take it all in first hand but I’ve also read that the wife may feel bad about letting go and totally enjoying her new “toy” with the husband there as she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings. It’s all about what the two of you agree on beforehand. Google iplayhewaits for a good picture about hotwifing.
Yes. I think it’s just what you and your partner agree on and enjoy. Forget the labels and just cum hard ;)
Interesting. Sounds like self-confidence and self-image are an issue. So just make sure she knows how great looking she is and that if she really wants to do it that you should do it now before time slips by. You can always do it again when/if she’s 10 kg lighter.
My fiancée and I have enjoyed one Hotwife experience 3 years ago and we have another one arranged very soon. Both are with an ex-boyfriend of hers, who has a long and thick cock, which she enjoys sucking and feeling inside her, stretching her pussy lips apart and depositing his hot cum inside her, (My fiancée loves bareback and we both know that he is safe and clean). The build up is electrifying for both of us, knowing that your partner is going to be having sex with someone else is exciting. On the day, my fiancée went to his place and they fucked all day. She sent me some photos during the day, which was so hot, but the best part of the day was when she came home and I pulled her knickers to one side and there was the spunk he had shot into her on her knickers and inside her. They had fucked 3 times during the day and on each occasion he fired his hot load inside her. When I put my cock inside her, it was an amazing feeling, her juices and his spunk and now my cock. Her pussy was red from the hard fucking she had from him and her lovely pussy felt very different.
Since that experience, we have relived it many times and it made our sex very hot, but due to life and family pressures, we have been unable to arrange another meet up to relive this, until recently. This will happen very soon and will be in our bed, in our house. They have been sending each other very hot texts, which my fiancée lets me see and she has sent him a lovely picture of her gorgeous pussy, letting him know exactly what she wants him to do to it. He has told her that he is going to tie her down, blindfold her and fuck her hard, ensuring that she is full of his cum, so that it leaks out of her onto the bed sheets, so that I can see it. She has told him that this time, she wants to suck him until he cums in her mouth, then she will send me a picture of his spunk in her mouth.
My fiancée has also asked if she can have fun with someone else that she knows, which of course I’ve said yes to. That is at the very early stages.
If anyone of you get to experience this and your relationship is strong and trusting enough, then go for it. It truly is amazing for both of you. I will let you know how the second session with her ex boyfriend goes, after it has happened.
Thanks for sharing! Very hot (and great that it’s safe). I personally would want to be there but it sounds like you’re loving this. Marry her soon :)
Thanks for sharing. That’s a different way to get into it. Sounds like you made the most of a difficult situation. Sounds a bit more connected or emotional which would scare me but if you’re making it work then more power to you.
I think this sounds about right. in the end the labels don’t matter tho. Just that you and your partner are happy doing what you’re doing.