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As the wife of a man who shares this fantasy I understand where your wife is. I enjoy the talk and the role play with toys although I could never do the DP. Anal just isnt for me. I get excited by the idea of being with my husband and another man with a large cock but I could never actually do it. Sometimes he gets frustrated by that but is our reallity and when he gets a bit too obsesed With doing it for real I am forced to slow down. Fantasy and reality must stay two things for me.
Anonymous

Thank you so much for commenting! I really do appreciate it because I think it’s important to get some real insight from the female point of view. So you feel like it’s your job to put the brakes on and make sure he knows that fantasy and reality have to stay separate?

Is there any part of you that thinks you could make that jump? That in the ‘perfect’ situation you might? And is putting the brakes on it also for you, so that YOU don’t get carried away because you know your husband won’t stop it if you get going? 

I might be projecting some wants on you there so feel free to say I’m totally wrong (or not respond at all). 

So it clearly turns you so what is it about doing it for real that holds you back?

It sounds to me that your wife is thinking that the fantasy was more important than her. She knows what you want and what she wants. Let those thoughts simmer in her mind and if she wants to do more let her bring it up. I'd go to Vegas as a vacation for just the 2 of you and that's how I'd sell it to her. If someone hits on her cool but leave it ALL up to her. You have got some incredible role play that most of us will never get. Just remember it's all about her, she may never do anything else b
Anonymous

Yes! I think you’re right. That was my problem. I was pushing a bit too hard for me and my fantasy instead of her and how amazingly hot she is. She clearly knows what I want. All too well. And she enjoys that to some degree that’s clear. You don’t role play and cum like that unless you’re into it on SOME level. So I’ll take a bit of a back seat now and just let her take the lead. Hopefully she brings up the role play and then … more.

Sorry to hear the "bad" news. I'm kind of in the same situation, but am still holding out hope. Even if it never happens, fantasizing about adding another guy has really spiced up our sex life, and to be honest, I enjoy fucking my wife more now than I ever have ion our 20+ years together. I may be wrong, but I think she feels the same way. I wish you the best of luck going forward, and will continue to check into this site daily to check on your progress!
Anonymous

Thanks again. I am really thankful for all this great outpouring of support. And I feel the same way. Since we’ve been open about my fantasy and role played (and more) it’s been the best sex we’ve had in our marriage. So if it just stays that way, well hell that’s great. But of course I hope for more, even if it were to just repeat last summer’s dance night.

Never say never. I"d just back off and let her call the shots. As far as Vegas goes go there for a vacation just the 2 of you and let her take the lead. You have more than most of us will ever get.Enjoy that roll play I wish my wife would do it. ENJOY!
Anonymous

Thanks so much! I really appreciate all the encouragement here. I’m backing off for sure and just letting things go where they may. Though it’s tough since we do have another opportunity in just a few weeks.

I'm sorry she seems to have had a change of heart. But my experience is that women are fickle and what she feels today may be because she was scared by her own desire or fear of actually doing it. I can see her not wanting to risk what she has but she knows she likes big cock and could be afraid of falling for one. Just stick with what you've got. Your sex life beats the hell out of mine lol Oh, what I'd give to be in your shoes for a day(well actually in your wife) with a dildo in her too!
Anonymous

Thanks! I really appreciate the message here. And I agree that her moods are fickle. Sometimes she’s straight-arrow and other times she’s wild. And lately I think she’s definitely embraced the idea that a bigger cock might be interesting so that might scare her. Our sex life IS amazing. I continue to remind myself.

Your cock and a dildo in her. I can watch right? :)

How are you doing? I think we all hope everything went well. But we're concerned that you haven't posted and maybe it would too well. I hope you have been fucking like rabbits part of the time with a guy you met at the club.
Anonymous

I’m good but a bit depressed. The night was fun in many ways but the wife pretty much called me out on the fantasy and said that it wasn’t going to happen and that I had my fantasy last summer. 

We were talking about Vegas at one point and I said I’d be down to go but she countered that she might not want to because she knew I just wanted to go because I thought it would up the chances of her getting down with a stranger. 

And she was right and admitted that and then she pretty much said no way it’s going to happen. So she has had the thought in her head but I might have been pushing a bit too hard and now she’s reigning things back in. 

I’m not saying this is a definitive no. Things change. Circumstances change. Moods change. But it certainly was a step back as far as I’m concerned. 

Another chance coming up in the next few weeks tho so we’ll see, maybe one step back and two steps forward? Wishful thinking but it’s all I have outside of fantastic sex and role play which is awesome and for which I AM thankful.

So there you go :(

Good luck tonight. I hope you get some progress, but if not just have fun and report back either way tomorrow. We'll all be eagerly checking in to find out what happened!
Anonymous

Probably not tonight. Tomorrow night tho. :)

How did your wife first react when you told her about this fantasy? I spoke with my wife just last week and she was a little bit freaked. I'm trying to reassure her I'm not trying this as a ploy to sleep with other women, no I'm not bisexual or a cuckold, yes I love and respect her etc etc but not sure she's out of shock mode yet to listen to me.
Anonymous

My wife was freaked out too.

Did it mean I wanted to sleep with other women? No.

Was I bi? No!

Did I love her? Yes!

Was she not enough for me? Of course she was! 

Yeah, it took her quite a while to get her mind around it. My advice is to ensure you pour on the romantic stuff. You can be all lust all fantasy all fuck all the time. You have to hold hands, get her roses and do the cuddle stuff too.

And give her time to let it sink in and get used to the idea. 

So I'm guessing that when you two go out for the night she's very aware of what you'd like to see happen? Of course if you're smart you won't advertise the outing that way, just an outing for the two of you and if something happens great.
Anonymous

Yes. There’s a pretty strong undercurrent of what I want and that she knows that. But it’s odd. It’s more like she also doesn’t want to acknowledge it so that it can happen. Not sure that makes sense. But by saying we’ll go out to that one specific club then the pressure is on. 

Yet, the last time we went out it was to another club and that wasn’t the plan that night. I’d put the idea in her head a while ago as an alternative to the first club. And I wanted something like that to happen and I think she did too but didn’t want to say it. But we wound up there - at her suggestion. It just sucked :(

So we talk about going out and I KNOW she knows where I’d like to wind up and what I’d like to happen and I think she doesn’t talk about it because she wants to keep the option open and keep it low key but in her head is planning to go. 

It took about 2 years of fantasy play but my wife finally decided to take a plunge. The first time I watched her with another guy I came faster than I usually do when we have sex (I can last 2 minutes on a good day). Watching her take his enormous tool and gasp and scream was something else. I lost count of her orgasms and now there is no stopping her. She is getting more uninhibited with each new guy. Good luck, love your blog!
Anonymous

Thanks for sharing! Well you got there a lot faster with your wife than I have with mine. But I guess it’s not a race. Great that you got what you wanted and that it’s going so well. Must admit what you describe is a lot of what I’d like to have happen.